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Confidentiality means privacy. It means that when you, as a young person, talk with your doctor or nurse about certain issues like sex (STI testing and treatment for patients 12 years and older), drugs, and feelings, they will not tell your parents or guardians what you talk about unless you give your permission.

What should I talk to the doctor or nurse about?

You can talk to your doctor or nurse about ANYTHING! Fill your doctor or nurse in, if you:

  • Think you might be pregnant
  • Need birth control or Plan B (morning-after pill)
  • Think you have an STI (sexually transmitted infection)
  • Need information about alcohol, tobacco, or other drug use
  • Are being hurt by someone
  • Want to talk about personal, school, or family issues; or feelings about sex and sexuality

What will my doctor or nurse tell my parents?

According to the laws in the State of California, your doctor or nurse cannot tell your parents or guardians anything about your exam if you're seen for any confidential services. These include care for problems or concerns in the areas of sexuality (pregnancy testing, abortion services, testing and treatment for STIs, pap smears, etc.), mental health, and substance abuse. You do not need to have your parents' permission for these types of services. For testing and treatment of STIs, you must be at least 12 years old to give permission.

Even though you don't have to ask your parents, it's a good idea to talk with them or another adult you trust about the medical care you need. We want you to be safe! If you have any questions about confidentiality, please ask us.


Some things cannot remain confidential (private). Your health care provider will need to contact someone else to help if you are being abused, physically and/or sexually.



  • Students in California have a right to leave school for confidential medical care. Your attendance office can explain your school’s policies.
  • School staff cannot share (disclose) a student’s HIV status, a pregnancy reported to a school nurse or counselor, or their gender identity, gender expression, and sexual orientation to another staff member or the student’s parents or guardians.

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