When we have sex or oral sex my thighs hurt. is this normal?
That sounds normal. During the arousal phase of the sexual response cycle, it’s common for muscles in the body to tense up. This tension is usually released when partners have orgasms. But if partners are aroused for a long time, or if they’re holding their bodies in one position for a while — which often happens during intercourse and oral sex — they may find that their muscles begin to feel sore. This is normal, and it usually goes away in a day or two.