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What do you do if a person wants to get it on with you and your not ready

Say no. People shouldn’t have any kind of sex that they’re not comfortable with, and sex partners should never use pressure to get consent.

Having sex is a big decision, and there are many things to think about, including

  • your personal values and goals
  • your feelings about the kinds of emotional and physical risks you’re willing to take
  • whether you’re feeling pressured
  • how clear you can be with your partner about what you do and don’t want to happen
  • what you want out of your relationship
  • Pressure to have sex can be a sign of an unhealthy relationship.

    Tags: sex, pressure