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Someone asked us: Hi! I have herpes type 2 && my boyfriend wants to pleasure me by eating me out. If I allow him will he get herpes on his mouth?

It’s possible. Here's how to help prevent herpes from spreading.

Herpes is most contagious during an outbreak — no matter the type of herpes. An outbreak is when you have sores that are open, moist, or leaking fluid on your mouth or genitals. So definitely avoid any kind of sexual contact if you feel an outbreak coming on, are currently having one, and for 7 days after the sores heal. 

It's also possible to spread herpes when you're not showing any sores or symptoms. So it’s important to use protection like dental dams and condoms to lower your chances of giving or getting herpes and other STDs.

You can also talk with your doctor or nurse about medicine that can help lower your chances of spreading herpes. 

Herpes can be painful and annoying, but the good news is there are ways to prevent spreading it to others and treat it when you have an outbreak. 

Learn more about herpes and how it’s spread.

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