What do you do if a person wants to get it on with you and you’re not ready?

May 13, 2011 min read

By Amy @ Planned Parenthood

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What do you do if a person wants to get it on with you and your not ready

Say no. People shouldn’t have any kind of sex that they’re not comfortable with, and sex partners should never use pressure to get consent.

Having sex is a big decision, and there are many things to think about, including

your personal values and goals

your feelings about the kinds of emotional and physical risks you’re willing to take

whether you’re feeling pressured

how clear you can be with your partner about what you do and don’t want to happen

what you want out of your relationship

Pressure to have sex can be a sign of an unhealthy relationship.

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