im 17. i have been in a serious relationship sense i was 14. when i was younger i used to get horny all the time. but now i NEVER get horny. sex isnt even appealing in any way. i never get turned on. but i have had an orgasm before. why do i not get turned on? is there something wrong with me? NOTHING works for me. ive tried everything. any advice? please answer. its been a problem for a while.
Many things can affect our sex drives, including stress, how comfortable we are with our partners, past sexual experiences, if we feel safe, how deeply we’re attracted to a person, and many other factors.
People have different levels of sex drive throughout their lives. Some people would be happy to have sex every day, and some people would be happy to have sex once a month or even less often. All of this is normal.
If it bothers you, however, it may help to talk with your health care provider.