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Does it hurt for a guy the first time he has sex?

A: Sex should not be painful for guys unless something is wrong. For guys, pain during sex can be caused by an infection, an allergic reaction to spermicide or latex, by a physical condition such as having a foreskin that is too tight, or by an irritation from previous sexual or non-sexual activities. If a guy is experiencing pain during sex, it's a good idea to make an appointment with a clinician to check it out. …

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How long does the typical "first time" last?

A: Everyone's first time having sex is different, so there's no "right" or "wrong" amount of time for it to last. …

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