Sometimes at night i have dreams and i am with a guy and we are having sex and I can feel everything and i have the orgasms and everything but i am still a virgin and i havent experinced this in real life is that normal?

~ oghsgirl09

Dear oghsgirl09,

Yes, it’s normal for girls — and guys — who are virgins to have sexy dreams and to have orgasms in their sleep.

When women have sexy dreams and become excited, it's common for their heart rate and blood pressure to hike up, their nipples to get hard, and their breasts to enlarge. Blood flow increases to the genitals so that the clitoris swells and the vagina lubricates itself, producing wetness. Sometimes this is called a "wet dream."

Wet dreams are healthy and natural for both girls and guys. Most teenagers have them, and a lot of adults have them, too.

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