Me and my girlfriend live a great distance from each other and we've had a long distance relationship for a while now. at times we have phone sex. just wondering if this is normal or not?

~ Stevieray

Dear Stevieray,

Phone sex is normal for some couples and not for others — it depends on what makes you and your partner comfortable. Phone sex is a kind of sex play that may involve masturbating to orgasm. Sex play is any voluntary sexual activity, with or without a partner. Sex play that does not involve intercourse is called outercourse.

One advantage of phone sex and some other kinds of outercourse, such as cybersex — online sex, is that there is no risk of pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections.

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