Length: 10-15 minutes

Materials: Handouts

Lesson Objectives:
An icebreaker, which allows participants to meet each other and use sexual terminology. Processing can include dialog on: the sensitive nature of the topic, values, behavior, etc.

Activity Description:
1. Pass out handouts
2. Participants ask each other "Sue, do you have teenage children?" rather than "Sue, can you answer question number one?"

The goal is to end up with a different person's initials by each of the statements. The processing of this experience can produce a very fruitful discussion.

Find Someone Who:

____ 1. Has teenage children

____ 2. Had talked to own children about sexual pleasure

____ 3. Never tells his/her age

____ 4. Has worked with teen parents

____ 5. Masturbates regularly

____ 6. Is very much in love

____ 7. Has faked an orgasm

____ 8. Had intercourse with another person before age 18

____ 9. Knows what rimming is

____ 10. Learned a lot of sexual information from parents

____ 11. Will give you a one-minute back massage

____ 12. Likes his/her body

____ 13. Has engaged in risky behavior recently

____ 14. Has ever seen an X-rated film

____ 15. Knows three ways condoms improve sex

____ 16. Has a friend who is HIV positive

____ 17. Is bisexual

____ 18. Has never felt the sting of discrimination