Programs & Resources for Parents & Caregivers

BRIDGE THE COMMUNICATION GAP

Despite their best intentions, many parents and caregivers struggle with starting the conversation with their children about sex. But the importance of family communication about sexuality cannot be overemphasized.
 
Parents have an essential role and opportunity to share accurate information about sexual issues — along with beliefs and values. In fact, you are your child’s primary sex educator.
 
Research indicates that a number of factors are key to effective communication: a strong and close parent/child relationship, clear expectations, and frequent honest conversation about sexual information, beliefs and values. It’s never too early — or too late — to begin supporting positive and healthy sexual attitudes and behaviors in your children.
 
To assist parents and caregivers in starting and continuing the conversation, PPSO offers numerous resources that provide informational tips and help build communication skills:
 

Parent Workshops
Oh No! What Do I Do Now?! Being an “Askable” Parent
Children’s natural questions, behaviors and curiosities around sexuality often create some of life’s awkward moments for mom and dad. While challenging, these special opportunities invite parents to share personal values and beliefs as well as age- and experience-appropriate information with their children.
 
Developed & presented by Mary Gossart, PPSO’s Vice President of Education & Training, “OH NO! WHAT DO I DO NOW? is readily adaptable for parents, grandparents and others — and addresses sexuality issues specific to preschoolers, high schoolers and everything in between! 
 
This program is designed to help parents other caregivers to feel more comfortable, confident, and competent responding to these issues.
 
Participants will:
  • investigate ways in which children — from birth — are developing sexual attitudes, values and feelings;
  • examine personal concerns and ideas about handling their children’s sexual curiosity;
  • learn strategies for responding in age- and experience-appropriate ways to children’s sexual questions and behaviors;
  • gain valuable information, skills and resources;
  • LAUGH AND HAVE FUN!
Contact us to learn more about scheduling a Parent Workshop (available only in Southwestern Oregon).

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There’s No Place Like Home for Sex Education

There’s No Place Like Home for Sex Education is a widely acclaimed parent guide that helps parents share accurate, age-appropriate information about sex with their children — from pre-school to high school. This resource is available in English and Spanish. It has also been adapted for use within Native American families.
 
Organized to provide tips and content according to the child’s age, it is an essential resource for parents. Visit www.noplacelikehome.org to view the Web version of There’s No Place Like Home for Sex Education, or download a pdf of the English, Spanish or Native American versions.
 
If you would like a printed copy of the 80-page spiral-bound version, you can order a copy. FREE to parents in Oregon!

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Parent Packets

Despite their best intentions, many parents feel challenged when it comes to talking with their children about sex. But many wonderful resources are available to help you do just that, and we have combined them into an informative parent packet.
 
Our parent packet includes:
  • “There's No Place Like Home for Sex Education,” our widely acclaimed 80-page guide that helps parents share medically accurate, age-appropriate information about sex with their children.
  • Fact sheets from national agencies that specialize in teen sexual health issues.
    These fact sheets give parents research-based information on:
    • the developmental and social issues that young people face,
    • the risk factors for teen pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections and
    • public support for comprehensive sex education in public schools and
    • proven public-health strategies that help protect young people and support them in responsible behavior.
  • A resource guide listing books, articles, Web sites, hotlines and other materials.

Order your parent packet (FREE! to parents in Oregon)

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Resources

The extensive list of resources below is adapted from an expanded list developed by Advocates for Youth. Listed here are Web sites for parents, Web sites for teens, helpful books,  recommended videos, and links to other organizations.

Recommended Web Sites for Parents  

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Recommended Web Sites for Young People

www.teenwire.com
Provides accurate information for teens on many different areas of healthy sexuality, in a fun and friendly format.

www.sexetc.org A Web site and free newsletter produced for teens by teens. Writers take on all different angles of preventing pregnancy and disease transmission.


www.scarleteen.com Sex education for the real world. Offers information and tools for communication with parents and partners.

www.positive.org Coalition for Positive Sexuality gives teens honest information that they need to make responsible decisions about sex and supports them in advocating for honest sex education.

www.iwannaknow.org Sponsored by the American Social Health Association, this site offers information on various topics having to do with healthy sexuality.

www.youthonboard.org Supports youth in becoming change makers by providing young people and adults the tools needed for meaningful partnerships in the community.

www.dosomething.org Do Something supports and encourages young people to make change in the world by “doing something.” This Web site provides tools, resources and ideas on how to put ideas into action.

www.mtv.com/thinkmtv/sexual_health/ This site offers great links to resources that deal with many facets of sexuality. MTV thinks sexual health is so important that it offers funding for young people to start projects of their own to help promote a positive sexual health message.

www.youthventure.org Encourages young people to fulfill their dreams and make a lasting impact on their school and community.

www.youthinfusion.com Youth Infusion is an organization, created and run by young people, that works to support youth as decision-makers, advocates and community change-agents.
 

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Recommended Books

All About Sex: A Family Resource on Sex and Sexuality
Ronald Filiberti Moglia & Jon Knowles
Three Rivers Press, 1997
ISBN: 0609801465

 
Bellybuttons Are Navels
Mark Schoen
Prometheus Books, 1992
ISBN: 0879755857
 
Beyond the Big Talk: Every Parent’s Guide to Raising Sexually Healthy Teens from Middle School to High School and Beyond
Debra Haffner
New Market Press, 2002
ISBN: 1557045178
 
Caution: Do Not Open Until Puberty! An Introduction to Sexuality for Young Adults with Disabilities
Rick Enright
Devinjer House, 1995
ISBN: 0968041507
 
Did the Sun Shine Before You Were Born? A Sex Education Primer
Sol & Judith Gordon
Aperture, 1974
ISBN: 0893881791
 
The Family Guide to Sex and Relationships
Richard Walker
Macmillan Publishing USA, 1996
ISBN: 002861433X
 
Flight of the Stork: What Children Think (and When) About Sex and Family Building
Anne C. Berstein
Perspective Press, 1996
ISBN: 0944934099
 
From Diapers to Dating: A Parent’s Guide to Raising Sexually Healthy Children
Debra W. Haffner
Newmarket Press, 2000
ISBN: 1557044260
 
The Go Ask Alice Book of Answers: A Guide to Good Physical, Sexual, and Emotional Health
Columbia University's Health Education Program
Henry Holt & Company, Incorporated, 1998
ISBN: 0805055703
 
Happy Birth Day!
Robie Harris
Candlewick Press, 2002
ISBN: 0763609749
 
“But How’d I Get in There in the First Place?”: Talking to Your Young Child about Sex
Deborah Roffman
Perseus Press, 2002
ISBN: 0738205729
 
How Can You Tell if You’re Really in Love?
Sol Gordon
Adams Media Corporation, 2001
ISBN: 1580624723
 
How to Talk to Your Children about AIDS
SIECUS, 1994
www.siecus.org
 
How You Were Born
Joanna Cole Morrow
William & Co., 1994
ISBN: 068812061X
 
It’s Perfectly Normal: Growing Up, Changing Bodies, Sex and Sexual Health
Robie Harris
Candlewick Press, 1996
ISBN: 1564021599
 
It’s So Amazing: A Book about Eggs, Sperm, Birth, Babies & Families
Robie Harris
Candlewick Press, 2002
ISBN: 0763613215
 
Lesbian and Gay Youth: Care and Counseling
Donna Futterman & Caitlin Ryan
Columbia University Press, 1998
ISBN: 0231111916
 
My Body, My Self for Boys: The What’s Happening to My Body? Workbook
Lynda Madaras & Area Madaras
Newmarket Press, 2000
ISBN: 1557044406
 
My Body, My Self For Girls: The What’s Happening to My Body? Workbook
Lynda Madaras & Area Madaras
Newmarket Press, 2000
ISBN: 1557044414
 
Now What Do I Do?
Robert Selverstone
SIECUS, 1996
www.siecus.org
 
Out With It: Gay and Straight Teens Write about Homosexuality
Paul Fell Cartoons, 1996
ISBN: 0966125606
 
Period
JoAnn Loulan, Bonnie Lopez & Bonnie Worthen
Book Peddlers, 2001
ISBN: 0916773965
 
Raising a Child Responsibly in a Sexually Permissive World
Sol Gordon & Judith Gordon
Adams Media Corporation, 1999
ISBN: 1580621775
 
Raising Sexually Healthy Children: A Loving Guide for Parents, Teachers and Care-Givers
Lynn Leight Morrow
William & Co, 1990
ISBN: 0380708574
 
Sex and Sensibility: The Thinking Parent’s Guide to Talking Sense about Sex
Deborah Roffman
Perseus Press, 2001
ISBN: 0738205206
 
The Sex Education Dictionary for Teens and Preteens
Dean Hoch & Nancy Hoch
Landmark Publishing, 1990
ISBN: 0962420905
 
Sex Stuff for Kids 7-17
Carole Marsh
Gallopade Publishing Group, 1997
ISBN: 0793368901
 
Sexual Development of Young Children
Virginia Lively & Edwin Lively
Delmar Thomson Learning, 1991
ISBN: 0827341989
 
Ten Talks Parents Must Have with Their Children about Sex and Character
Pepper Schwartz & Dominic Cappello
Hyperion Press, 2000
ISBN: 0786885483
 
Two Teenagers in Twenty: Writings by Gay & Lesbian Youth
Ann Heron
Alyson Publications, 1995
ISBN: 1555832822
 
What’s Happening to My Body? Book for Boys: A Growing-up Guide for Parents and Sons
Lynda Madaras
Newmarket Press, 2000
ISBN: 1557044430
 
What’s Happening to My Body? Book for Girls: A Growing-up Guide for Parents and Daughters
Lynda Madaras
Newmarket Press, 2000
ISBN: 1557044449
 
What’s the Big Secret?: Talking About Sex with Boys and Girls
Laurie Krasoy Brown
Little, Brown and Company, 2000
ISBN: 0316101834
 
When Living Hurts: A Lively What-to-Do Book for Yourself or Someone You Care about Who Feels Discouraged, Sad, Lonely, Hopeless, Angry or Frustrated, Unhappy or Bored, Depressed, Suicidal: For Teenagers and Young Adults
Sol Gordon
Union of American Hebrew Congregations, 1994
ISBN: 0807405011
 
When Sex is the Subject: Attitudes and Answers for Young Children
Pamela Wilson
ETR Associates, 1991
ISBN: 1560710640
 
Words Can Work: When Talking with Kids about Sexual Health
Jeanne Blake
Family Health Productions, Inc., 2004
ISBN: 097531470X


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Recommended Videos
In Our Own Words: Teens and AIDS
Family Health Productions, Inc., 1995
Boston, MA
Phone: 978.282.9970
http://www.abouthealth.com/h_products.htm
 
The Power of Girls: Inside and Out
Family Health Productions, Inc., 2003
Boston, MA
Phone: 978.282.9970
http://www.abouthealth.com/h_products.htm
 
Raising Healthy Kids: Families Talk About Sexual Health
Family Health Productions, Inc., 1997
Boston, MA
Phone: 978.282.9970
http://www.abouthealth.com/h_products.htm
 
Talking About Sex: A Guide for Families
Planned Parenthood Federation of America, 1996
New York, NY
Phone: 877.478.7732 (toll free)
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/portal/files/portal/medicalinfo/parenting/pub-parents-teen-talk.xml

Recommended Organizations
Advocates for Youth
2000 M Street NW, Suite 750
Washington, DC 20036
Phone: 202.419.3420
http://www.advocatesforyouth.org
 
American Academy of Pediatrics
141 Northwest Point Boulevard
Elk Grove Village, IL 60007
Phone: 847.228.5005
http://www.aap.org
 
American Association for Health Education
1900 Association Drive
Reston, VA 20191-1598
Phone: 703.476.3400
http://www.aahperd.org/aahe/
 
American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors & Therapists
PO Box 1960
Ashland, VA 23005-1960
Phone: 804.752.0026
http://www.aasect.org
 
American College of Obstetricians & Gynecologists
409 12th Street SW
Washington, DC 20024-2188
Phone: 202.638.5577
http://www.acog.org
 
American Medical Association
515 N. State Street
Chicago, IL 60610 
Phone: 312.464.5315
http://www.ama-assn.org

American Red Cross, Health & Safety Services 
8111 Gatehouse Road, 6th Floor Falls
Church, VA 22042
Phone: 703.206.7421
http://www.redcross.org/services/hss/

American School Health Association
P.O. Box 708
Kent, OH 44240
Phone: 330.678.1601
http://www.ashaweb.org
 
Children’s Defense Fund
25 E Street NW
Washington, DC 20001
Phone: 202.628.8787
http://www.childrensdefense.org
 
CDC National Prevention Information Network
P.O. Box 6003
Rockville, MD 20849-6003
Phone: 1.800.458.523
http://www.cdcnpin.org
 
Family Health Productions
PO Box 1639
Gloucester, MA 01930
Phone 978.282.9970
http://www.abouthealth.com
 
Girls Incorporated
120 Wall Street
New York, NY 10005
Phone: 1.800.374.4475
http://www.girlsinc.org
 
National Council of La Raza
1111 19th Street NW, Suite 1000
Washington, DC 20009-6207
Phone: 202.785.1670
http://www.nclr.org
 
National Education Association Health Information Network
1201 16th Street NW
Washington, DC 20036
Phone: 202.822.7570
http://www.neahin.org
 
National PTA
330 N. Wabash Avenue, Suite 2100
Chicago, IL 60611
Phone: 312.670.6782
http://www.pta.org
 
Planned Parenthood Federation of America
810 Seventh Avenue
New York, NY 10019
Phone: 212.541.7800
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
 
Search Institute
700 South Third Street, Suite 210
Minneapolis, MN 55415
Phone: 612.376.8955
http://www.search-institute.org
 
Sexuality Information & Education Council of the U.S. (SIECUS)
130 West 42nd Street, Suite 350
New York, NY 10036-7802
Phone: 212.819.9770
http://www.siecus.org
 
YWCA of the U.S.A.
350 Fifth Avenue
New York, NY 10118
Phone: 212.273.7800
http://www.ywca.org


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