Unfortunately, while 9 in 10 parents have said that they've talked to their kids about sexuality, only 1 in 10 teens report having conversations with their parents about sex.
It is clear that an open dialogue between young people and their parents can be a true positive influence on children's health and well-being. Parent/child communication helps adolescents have a positive view of sexuality, provides them with information to take care of their sexual health, and helps them acquire skills to make responsible decisions throughout their lives.
However, it is imperative that parents have the knowledge, skills and comfort to open the lines of communication in a thoughtful and positive manner. Parents need to be provided with accurate information, learn how to talk openly and freely rather than lecturing or threatening, be willing to both ask and answer questions, and really listen to their child's concerns and feelings. Equally important, discussions should go beyond "the talk," encompassing topics such as sexual development, reproductive health, interpersonal relationships, affection, intimacy, body image and gender roles.