October is Let's Talk Month
As parents, we all want the best for our teens. That means helping them with homework, encouraging their hobbies, and ...talking about sex.
Teens name parents as the biggest influence on their decisions about sex. And teens who talk to their parents about sex are more likely to wait longer to have sex, and use condoms and other forms of birth control when they do.
We're here to help you get the conversation started. Watch this video to learn more.
Visit Tools for Parents for tips on talking with teens about sex and sexual health, building strong parent-teen relationships, and setting rules that help keep teens safe and healthy.
Parents, Teens, and Sex
For Let's Talk Month, we asked teens and parents — including actors Cynthia Nixon, Elizabeth Banks, and Alfre Woodard — about the conversations they've had with their families about sex. Here are their stories.
Additional Resources
Parents and Teens Talk About Sexuality: A National Poll
Let's Talk: Tips for Talking With Your Teen About Sexuality
Let's Talk: Tips for Talking With Your Parents About Sex and Relationships
Parents and Teens Talk About Sexuality: In Their Own Words
Just the Facts: Teen Sexual Behavior and Parent-Child Communication
Los adolescentes y sus padres conversan sobre la sexualidad: una encuesta nacional
Datos relámpagos: la conducta sexual de los adolescentes y la comunicación entre padres e hijos
Sugerencias para conversar con tus padres sobre el sexo y las relaciones de pareja
Sugerencias para conversar con sus hijos adolescentes sobre la sexualidad
Jezebel: James Deen, Courtney Stodden, Tavi and Others Recall Their First ‘Sex Talk’
Valley Advocate: Talking to Kids About Sex--Start Early, Talk Often
Delmarva Now (NY): Teens Even Less Comfortable Discussing Sex With Parents Than Mom And Dad
The Journal (CA): Planned Parenthood Highlights New Survey and Essential Programs
Washington Square News (NY): Survey Focuses on Communications Between Teens, Parents
KCRG (IA): Teaching About Sex Varies in Eastern Iowa Schools
Blog Posts
Family Circle: Momster: Actress Alfre Woodard on Talking to Her Kids About Sex
Family Circle: Momster: One Mom Talks to Her Teenage Daughter About Sex
Family Circle: Momster: Talking About Sex With Your Teen
Family Circle: Momster: 5 Common Parental Concerns About Talking To Your Kids About Sex
Family Circle: Momster: Teach Your Kids to Say No - or Yes - to Sex
Family Circle: Momster: What Parents Fear Most About the Sex Talk (and How to Overcome It)
Family Circle: Momster: The Sex Talk and Your Teen: What's Porn Got to Do With It?
Family Circle: Momster: "The Sex Talk": Why Fathers Have to Get Involved
Family Circle: Momster: 5 Things Every Teen Should Know About Sex
Family Circle: Momster: The Sex Talk Dilemma
Mommyish: It’s Awkward As Balls To Discuss Sex With Kids, Do It Anyway
Country Fried Choice: Let’s Talk About Sex: Getting the Conversation Started for Parents and Teens